Despite having the only organ in the human body whose sole function is pleasure, people with clitorises can find it notoriously difficult to have an orgasm. Many people pretend to be experts, but in truth, only a selected few crack the code. Depending on the study, the numbers vary, but about 95 percent of heterosexual men have an orgasm during sex.
One of the biggest insecurities a person can have during sex is not being able to make a woman orgasm. The truth is that women are much harder to get to reach climax than are men. Doing everything from fingering her to oral should be enough to arouse her and make her want the real thing.
If you're a woman who finds climaxing easy and can have orgasms during intercourse with little effort — even in a position where it's difficult for your partner to access the clitoris with the fingertips — then you are very lucky indeed! For the majority of us, 'ringing that bell' is not nearly so simple. Even women who can masturbate to a climax with no difficulty can feel quite anxious about 'coming' with a male partner.
Here's our step-by-step guide to giving her an orgasm in minutes. Gentlemen, start her engine. It can be done.
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Much like with stand-up, in the bedroom, I had beginner's luck that gave me a false impression of my abilities. In college, I hooked up with a woman who lost her shit at my slightest touch. How could I not think I was truly the gangster of love?
Suddenly sliding away from that peak is disappointing, to say the least. That's doubly true for women, many of whom find it much harder to achieve orgasm during penetrative sex. In fact, according to a recent survey, only 65 percent of heterosexual women consistently reach the pinnacle of pleasure during sex.
To hear a woman say she achieved a vaginal orgasm is a rare occurrence. Historically, there has been a large knowledge gap when it comes to the science of female orgasms. The same study found that less than 1 in 5 women are able to orgasm through vaginal stimulation.
When it comes to giving the girl you are with a truly incredible and memorable orgasm, there is a lot you need to know. You will first need to learn quite a few things before you can be the stud she needs you to be in the bedroom. The more of this information you get, the happier you will make her.